Thursday, February 25, 2010

WE'RE SINGLE!

...quit drooling

Friday, February 12, 2010

It's all for love. L.O.V.E.

I think we all need to love ourselves a little more. A lot more.


Hi, my name is Jennifur, and in the past I have settled for less than I deserve. I have taken jobs where I was underpaid, overworked and demeaned. I have had boyfriends who ignored me, were mean to me, or didn't respect me. I have gone to auditions and allowed myself to believe that I wasn't as pretty, talented or deserving as the other women in the room.

-And I don't think that I'm sad, sorry exception to all the Single Ladies out there -

::All the Single Ladies, All the Single Ladies (sorry couldn't help myself).::



In the past year, in particular, I have been working on coming back to myself, treating this person I am as the one person in the world I have direct control over and responsibility for,

and it's true.

I would never treat others the way I have stood by and allowed myself to be treated - or worse, treated myself. Michael always said that his mission was to communicate, deliver, and encourage love in the world; I can get on board with that.

So this Valentine's Day 2010, and everyday going forward I'm going to let love motivate me. If something hurts (and I'm not talking about the struggle of growth, or the good pain that leads to acheivement or journey...you know, resistance, hard work, determination!) I'm not doing it. If it burns don't touch it! If a guy is even a little disrepectful to me... he's not getting my number, if you give me a creepy vibe... I'm getting off the elevator. If my apartment is falling apart and the landlord won't fix it and I can't fix it myself...I'm moving. That's it!


Life is entirely too short. I'm going to enjoy myself. Unnecessary hassles - you are getting trimmed!




Now, I'd like to extend this same love to my friends. I will not force my L.O.V.E. on you, but I'm going to do my best to remind you how wonderful and deserving you are.

I want you to treat yourself like the Queen of your universe (you are you know).


Here's to today, it's a beautiful Day!


-Jenny